remember, I was amazed at the force of some very specific expressions that ruled my daily
interactions with an iron fist. The dreaded Qu'en dira-t-on?'What will they say?'kept me under
the ever-watchful eye of an unsympathetic judge whose negative comments would reduce
me to social dust. Equally worrisome, the peremptory Ça ne se fait pas!'This isn't
done!'invariably slammed the door on any attempt at dialogue following the denial of such …